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Normally, we set a goal first. And then we focus all of our energy on achieving that goal. Basically, the premise is in order to have what you want, you must first be the person who would have those things and think about what that person would do in order to achieve their outcome. You shift the focus from achieving to being. Would you need to be confident? A good listener? A problem solver? Do they collaborate and model with teachers? It is a wonderfully powerful framework for lasting change, however is often over simplified and misused.

Success in any area of life always starts with a very clear picture about the results you desire. If you don't know what the goal is, it is impossible to tell if you've achieved success or not. What kind of person makes it in their field of expertise, when most work hard for very little recognition or reward?

What must they believe about themselves? How do they dress? What is their relationship with money? What story do they live out of? How do they walk when they enter a room?

If I can be this kind of person, then I can have access to the same results as they do.